What My Clients Say...

1. I am not broken or damaged.
2. I am not weak, naive or foolish.
3. I am not unloveable.

After talking with counselors, psychologists, and pastors over many years, trying to “fix” myself, a loud voice kept persisting that I was the problem: I was too much, not enough, too selfish, too selfless, too needy, too closed off...that I was just wrong and nothing would ever change. But…

Another voice said, No, that’s just not true…another voice said "Just try talking with Stephanie".

Michaelangelo said “The sculpture is already complete within the marble block, before I start my work. It is already there, I just have to chisel away the superfluous material.”

Stephanie is a sculptor of spirit in much that way…her tools are not a mallet and chisel, but love, vision and trust; she's not content to just remove the “extra material” herself.

She quietly, gently, almost imperceptibly hands the tools over to the women she is called to serve until, before they realize it, they are loving, seeing, and trusting themselves into experiencing the masterpiece that has always been inside...that has always been who they REALLY were."

Elizabeth C.

"One year ago, I was a new mom when the revelation of my husband’s nearly two-year affair was discovered.

Blind-sided, crushed, lost, and alone with my newborn, I sought after help. Nine months of traditional therapy was helpful, but not doing the trick.  I stumbled over one of Stephanie’s posts that made me hungry.  Made me want what she had; what she said I could make for myself too.

Skeptical of a free call…I booked it.  That 50 minutes was the most clarity, insight, and open conversations I have ever had with anyone, EVER. I knew I needed her. But this was some total stranger, off Facebook.  “Maybe she’s a master manipulator too?” “Maybe everyone is really good at lying?” “I can’t afford this.” “Is this a scam?” That phone call stuck with me for days until I took a leap of faith and booked my sessions with her. She called. Every time, to the minute.  Even was available when I needed her on a bad day while she was on a field trip with her kid. 

She coached me through the aftermath of my trauma of the affair, most certainly. But most importantly, I got down to the raw parts of my life.  Exposing and discovering limits, beliefs, and other tendencies that I was unaware of.  Things that were holding me back from living a true, authentic life; the kind I always dreamed about but was too fearful to go after.  She helped me find ME, the me I want to leave behind, and the me I want to become."

~ Lucy G.

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"I started working with Stephanie weekly, wow! Did I have work to do! She pushed me to look and think about things like I never did before. Guess what? I found myself again, I am stronger then ever. I am proud of me, for what I accomplished working with her. Please consider letting her help you if you are stuck. The support and work she gave was like a balm to my soul. Please don't suffer and try to heal on your own." ~ Diana H

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"In the powerful and transformational sessions I had with you I gained:"

• Self-love.  I learned that everything begins with me – that if I want love, respect, honesty, etc. that I must embody and live those qualities myself which in turn allows me to FULLY love, respect, and be honest with others.
• Self-worth.  Knowing and believing wholeheartedly that I am worthy of love and respect, that I’m precious, priceless and embody divine light. 
• Identity.  I learned who I am without my husband and was reminded of the many qualities I love, cherish and appreciate about myself.  I learned that who I am is independent of what anyone else thinks of me or how they treat me.
• Acceptance & Forgiveness.  I learned to forgive myself for believing that I was worthless, weak, pathetic, and unlovable and for abandoning myself.  Most importantly forgiveness allowed me to let go of the shroud of shame I carried for years that resulted in my self-imposed isolation and choosing to be ostracized from family and friends.     
• Empowered.  I transformed the pain into power for myself by using the affair as an opportunity to learn, expand and grow as a woman and human being in leaps and bounds.  I gained a calling or sense of purpose to be a light for others by sharing my story.  In time the universe will reveal on what forum or platform that opportunity will present itself. 

I will forever cherish my time with you as my Coach and teacher, and sincerely thank you for facilitating and encouraging my self-actualization.  I finally feel at home and at-peace-in-self-love in my own being."

~ Samantha H.