The truth is, behind the surface, you battle with yourself; there is a MAJOR disconnect between how you show up in public vs how you show up in private.

At work and out in public, you're confident, decisive...a boss babe, really.

But at home, in your intimate relationships, you're self-doubting, people-pleasing, putting yourself last, second-guessing, and frustrated with yourself...it's like you're a kid, not the grown woman you are.

You've tried therapy to deal with the problem. And you could have a pretty nice bonfire with all the self-help books you've read. You've tried really hard to implement the tips and techniques, but after a bunch of stopping and starting, the needle hasn't moved. 

It's so damn confusing, disappointing & exhausting! 

This incongruence makes it a struggle to:

• Trust yourself completely
• Enjoy deeper, more meaningful & intimate connections with those closest to you
• Try new things, take healthy risks, and achieve your next level of success, both professionally & personally.

You want to trust yourself to show up in all your power & capacity in every part of your Life; you don't want to feel so compartmentalized. 

And you know there's another level of joy and inner peace beyond what you've been experiencing; you can feel it. You just can't seem to get there, because old habits and patterns in your personal life keep you STUCK.

• Self doubt stops you from taking consistent decisive action for your personal goals and desires. 
• You settle for less than what you really want/deserve in relationships and lifestyle
• You hold back, and often hide, your unique perspective & playful Spirit, out of fear of criticism and judgment
• You play small and "tone yourself down" so as not to draw attention or make others uncomfortable
• You accept unacceptable behavior to “keep the peace” and hold on to  relationships that drain you, compromise your values, and leave you feeling like "the problem"
• You people-please, and neglect your own boundaries, out of fear of emotional/physical abandonment
• You avoid healthy confrontation, and brush things under the rug,  out of a fear of appearing mean, difficult, unworthy or wrong.
• You habitually neglect your own physical, emotional & spiritual needs because you're “too busy” 
• You constantly over-scheduling yourself, to the point of exhaustion and resentment
• You engage in chronic negative self talk that hijacks your peace, and destabilizes your emotions
• You constantly discount your own intuition, resulting in pain, inconvenience and loss for yourself, and others.
• You grossly neglect play, hobbies, and self care because you fear being “unproductive”
• You can't stand how you see yourself in your intimate relationships, so you prioritize your work/public life over your personal life; as a result, your relationships feel like a constant struggle. 
• You hide your frustration, confusion, and feelings of hopelessness behind a facade of confidence, “positivity” and ambition, resulting in emotional isolation and loneliness. 

Self-abandoning behaviors don't go away on their own; this is a "WIRING" issue that CANNOT reset itself....YOU have to reset it; and you CAN! You just need the right tools!