We need to talk about something that might feel uncomfortable, but holding it in isn’t healthy, so let’s see if I can help...

I’ll paint a little picture….

In your work/professional/creative life, you kick ass. 

You’re calm, clear and direct about what you need, and you’re not afraid to set expectations, give feedback,  set boundaries, or push back when other people try to challenge your boundaries.

You show up for yourself and your goals consistently, respectfully, without making apologies for it, or feeling the need to justify it.  

But in your personal relationships, you’re like a different person…

This person has to over-explain and justify what she wants with a bunch of “why’s…….”telling it like it is” make her nauseous, setting boundaries feels super awkward, and enforcing those boundaries makes her feel rude.

She gets analysis-paralysis when it’s time to make a decision, and then she ruminates on whether or not it was the right decision.