This is gonna be an email that costs me subscribers, but there's something you need to hear, whether you like it or not....you DESERVE to hear it...

So here goes:

The only problem you have, is that you think you have a problem.

It’s my experience that most women in midlife are struggling from essentially the exact same issue: they’re having an identity crisis.

Sometimes, in certain situations, with certain people, while engaged in certain activities (usually work/professional/creative stuff) they’re confident. 

They appreciate themselves. They believe in themselves, and are positive, hopeful and happy. They identify as a capable, strong has-her-shit -together grown ass woman.…..They LOVE themselves. 

But at OTHER times, in certain situations, with certain people, while engaged in certain activities (usually personal...

We need to talk about something that might feel uncomfortable, but holding it in isn’t healthy, so let’s see if I can help...

I’ll paint a little picture….

In your work/professional/creative life, you kick ass. 

You’re calm, clear and direct about what you need, and you’re not afraid to set expectations, give feedback,  set boundaries, or push back when other people try to challenge your boundaries.

You show up for yourself and your goals consistently, respectfully, without making apologies for it, or feeling the need to justify it.  

But in your personal relationships, you’re like a different person…

This person has to over-explain and justify what she wants with a bunch of “why’s…….”telling it like it is” make her nauseous, setting boundaries feels super awkward, and enforcing...